My thoughts on being disqualified from Miss Malaysia World because I am Muslim
“I've always wanted to join Miss Malaysia, and was so excited to receive news that Muslim girls would be able to participate in Miss Malaysia World this year. It was finally an opportunity to show the world what true Malaysian beauty is. A beauty queen is not merely a pretty face but is intelligent, cultured, well-spoken, kind hearted, warm and friendly. She uses her title to help others and participates in various charities worldwide. The idea of working with underprivileged children and the less fortunate motivated me deeply.
I went for the auditions where I first met the pageant organiser, Miss Malaysia Universe 1990, Datin Anna Lim. She's the type of lady who has a smile that can light up an entire room, a real beauty queen who radiates happiness and warmth wherever she goes. I was told that as a Muslim participant, I would not wear a bikini in the swimsuit round and instead be required to wear something more modest- either a swimsuit with pants or sports attire. I was also informed there that the international grand finals would be held in our Muslim neighbouring country, Indonesia.
At the auditions, I was given an autobiography book written by Datin Anna. In it were amazing tales of her life's adventure. It seems that we were both from Ipoh! I smiled when I flipped through the pages of photographs of her with orphaned children, cancer patients, Miss Universes's from other nations... I was even more impressed to learn that after the competition, she studied in London and became a stock broker! In fact, she also started her own interior designing firm. A true example of beauty with brains! That night I dreamed of following in her footsteps.
The next day, I received a call informing me that I had made it into the Top 20 Finalists! I was estatic and overjoyed. A few days later I joined the other girls for a photoshoot and press launch.
Just as news that four Muslim girls were participants had made headlines, however, it was published that a 'fatwa' existed banning Muslim women in Malaysia from participating in beauty pageants. Wawa, Miera, Kathrina and I were disqualified!
Today I am saddened, disappointed and outraged that in 2013 the country's largest ethnic race cannot participate in Miss Malaysia.
The reason why the 'fatwa' was created in 1996 no longer exists. Competition rules allow Muslim girls to dress modestly. Even if not, shouldn't religion be a personal choice? The first Muslim girl won Miss World USA in 2010, and in UK similarly many years ago.
Miss World pageant isn't about parading women to entice lust in men but to show the elegance and inner beauty of a woman since the organisations aim to help others through charities.
Why prevent us from making the country proud? If wearing tight attire is such a sin, why not ban swimming and gymnastics too?
As I type the last lines to this note, I just received a message from Datin Anna Lim who has made so much effort and braved to fight for our rights:
Please to inform you Dato' Anna Lim has been trying to arrange for a meeting with Datuk Wan Zahidi 'why muslim girls are illegal and sinful to participate in beauty pageants'? She wants to know which part of the Quran states that and hope to have a favourable explaination to this matter. But unfortunately her request on the meeting to discuss this matter has not be granted and no further explaination was made.
Please help our fight for justice, Malaysia. We're standing up against discrimination as this outdated 'fatwa' needs to be ammended.
Thanks everyone for all the love and support!”
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Dear sis Sara.. understanding Islam as a religion of peace, tolerance or moderate doesn't mean that you have all the freedom to act as you like.. exposing your curve, your skin, your hip and lingering on the stage of wilderness filled with perverted men enjoying your body with all the fantasies they have.. common sis, this act has long been forbade in Islam and the most fundamental teaching that is to cover your aurat..
If you think that you are so pretty, there are more prettier ladies than you. If you think that you are so intelligent, there are many more intelligent ladies out there. So what are you? You are just an unfortunate lady fell prey to the infidels who have long sought revenge to the muslim world.. wake up sis, be a true muslimah..
Sister Sarah, Fatwas are based on Al-Quran and Sunnah. Al-Quran has clearly define what is your Aurat as a Muslimah. If you choose to ignore the Fatwa, as a Muslim you cannot ignore Al-Quran. Involving yourself in a contest that will require you to wear attires that reveal your Aurat is against the teachings of Al-Quran. If you think that Fatwa is outdated, Al-Quran will never be outdated.
We cant chose what to do things to fit our likings /dislikings. We choose not to eat non-halal food which follow the teachings of Al-Quran. But why cant we follow the teachings on Aurat?
Why is beauty pageant is "HARAM" in Islam. 1st thing for women to do is to cover their AURAT to be shown.
What the ulama advised is true. We can't simply alter our religion (ISLAM) to the religion according our own lust,need etc.. If one day ulama established "Beauty Pageant" in M'sia then it will be disaster. All of us will be punished in the hereafter. We should not make it liberal our own religion.
Some people understand poligmy in a shallow minded. The men's want to poligmy but didn't follow the Prophet Muhammad Sunnah.. They talk about womens being unjust just because poligmy, but did they realized and condemn a husband keeping mistress at their wives back, or becoming a customer to whore. Enough with Salman Rushidee that pollute the muslims minded.
To answer why is cigar is haram. Everything that caused/harm our body is consider haram. Even the whole world promoting cigar is not good, caused illness to human, not to just the smoker but to the people who INHALE the smoke. We're born muslims but our knowledge is to little. Remember what Ibni Qayyum said "If no one to prevent maksiat,dosa,wait for Allah punishment".Read more about Ibni Qayyum wrote what is the effect from sin,maksiat and the sign of it.
Well, if u love your God and want to be a good servant for Him, then please, read His words and UNDERSTAND it before u whine and whine about why this why that. If u r not happy with Allah's word, then my dear, nobody can help u except Him alone. semoga mendapat hidayah Nya di bulan Ramadhan.
I BEG u to read this from al-Quran before writing anything immature.
This religion business is so OVERATED!
in my humble opinion, if you are that obedient, and if you are that true to your religion, let's just leave it to "GOD" to judge them. Why bother? Advice is appreciated but not the one that is destructing someone's dream! I read some of the posts here and they are quite mean spirited..... Don't you think ISLAM is meant to be NICE and PEACEFUL?
Enough already. Check yourself up and practice whatever you believe and be done with it. I believe that ALL RELIGIONS meant to guide people to be good to each other. AMEN!
To Sara and the rest, go chase your dreams!
You are a beautiful girl. And you deserve better.
Don't let anything dictate what to do, as you are entitled to your own free will and vision.
Critics will always be there, there is no point in convincing them as they already have their own point of view. Just do what your heart tells you as long as it is nothing negative which might harm other people. Be true to yourself.
For those who are judging her, go and understand where she comes from before opening that poison mouth of yours. Do put your heart on more pressing issues such as crime, ec0n0my, corruption & etc
If Muslim ladies are not allowed to participate, I wonder they may later said Muslims are not
allow to watch beauty contest in TVs.
Well we consume sugar,salt,overdose then you get disease. As for radiation that caused by technology it's the human that creates those things rite.. It's human who injected chicken, cow, with antibiotics that in long terms we consume that can cause cancer. Do we need cigarette in our daily lives? We smoke that for what? For us to live? Come On HELLO, I'll can joted down things that we eat, we drink, tech that we used that harm us and so many things. We as a human can create wonderfull things that not 100% safe at a very least, because human are not perfect. But sometimes greedy people always manipulated things for their own wealth. FYO Bill Gates support generic food that will control human population because the more people is the more food we need to produce..
If you HELLO want's to talk about environment polution,air pollution,that you mention just now I'll explain who get's richer behind all this.